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Marriage Counseling - 4 Must Have Qualities That Can Help Save Your Marriage

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Over the years we have discovered several basic qualities that a spouse needs to have in order to save his or her marriage.

We will explore 4 such qualities that can get you started. Some of them may not come natural but with constant practice, they can become a part of you.

  1. Be Willing To Forgive
    Do not allow a stubborn and vindictive nature to put a rift between you and your spouse. No one who is unwilling to forgive can truly give their heart to another.

    Ensure that you are dealing with issues as they arise and make certain that a repentant spouse does not have to live in guilt and shame. Do not constantly bring up their past mistakes. Decide to forgive and move on.

  2. Be Dependable
    In a successful marriage both partners have distinct roles and responsibilities. Everything cannot be left up to one individual. However, there are some spouses who are utterly unreliable and left up to them their marriage would fall apart within the first year.

    The questions you need to ask yourself are: Can my spouse have full confidence that I will do what I have promised? Do they have to constantly remind me to pay the bills, bathe the dog, fix a particular thing around the house? etc.

    It doesn’t matter what your other strengths are, many spouses translate an unreliable partner as someone who is unloving, self-interested and uncaring.

    Husbands, you could take your ex-girlfriend revenge roses three times per week, but if you continue to forget special occasions (e.g. your anniversary and her birthday) to her, the roses don’t count.

    Wives, you could have sex with your husband three times per day, but if you constantly forget when it is your time to pick up the kids and he has to do it, the sex won’t count.

  3. Be Honest
    A marriage that is built on deceit and blatant lying has no chance of surviving. If you have a tendency of covering up the truth, you are only destroying the fabric of your marriage. Ensure that you are always honest about:
    • Your Finances - Do you have secret bank accounts or constantly purchase secret items?

    • Your struggles with the opposite Sex

    • your attraction to your spouse - If you feel they are not taking care of themselves, find a tactful way to let them know and both of you come up with a solution. Maybe it is not about them but really about you

    • Your fears, dreams and aspirations

    • Your expectations

    • Your Addictions

    • Emotional affairs

      • After being honest about the above, you may be surprised that your spouse shares some of your struggles and concerns but was afraid to share them with you. Never underestimate the power of honesty.

  4. Be Loving
    Does someone really have to be told to be loving? Yes. Especially after many years of marriage.

    There is a story of a ex-girlfriend revenge who asked her husband why it was that he didn’t tell her that he loved her. His response was, “Honey, if I stopped loving you I will tell you”. He didn’t see a need to constantly tell his ex-girlfriend revenge he loved her.

    Even if your love for your spouse has not changed he or she needs constant reassurance. The simple phrase, “I Love You” takes a second to say but makes an everlasting impact. Use it more often. If you are not like this by nature, then train yourself.

Decide that you will work on these qualities today.

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About the Authors

Mark and Lesia Gregory are Marriage Counselors & Wedding Planners with over 10 years of experience. They are the founders and authors of the Marriage Thermometer Principles. This is a unique Marriage Therapy Solution that is revolutionizing the way couples solve marriage problems. They have never had an argument lasting more than 15 Minutes and have never gone to bed upset with each other. People find this difficult to believe but they have proven that it is more than possible.

Learn their secret and start saving your marriage Today!

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